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2012 Resolution: Get rid of ‘What ifs’

What ifsAs a programmer, I encounter a lot of nested ifs in codes and thinking about how it works in applications, it can pretty much be applied to real life. Putting if statements in codes help determine how the application will run, to which method it will go to next and sometimes cause the application to exit or stop.

I realized in life, it kind of works the same. The ‘what ifs’ running through a person’s mind determines or influences his or her decisions in life. In fact, sometimes having too many ‘what ifs’ can make a person miss opportunities and keep that person stuck in life. Never moving forward. Well, I don’t want to be that person anymore that’s why one of my resolutions this year is to get rid of ‘what ifs’.

Let me share with you an excerpt from Our Daily Bread vol. 18, which I find really inspirational in helping me fulfill my resolution. 🙂 Read the rest of this entry

“Life is not fair; get used to it.” -Bill Gates

Do you ever come to the great realization that LIFE IS UNFAIR?

All your life you’ve tried so hard to be good, doing things out of genuine kindness, trusting that eventually GOOD KARMA will come because you have come to believe the wise saying, ‘NO GOOD DEED GOES UNREWARDED’.

But in the end, all you get from life is not a box of chocolates but a closet full of CRITICISM, MISFORTUNE & CRUELTY  and all that is left for you to give is a bucket of tears. Read the rest of this entry